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You are in a relationship with someone that you are no longer romantically interested in. It's time to be honest.
Difficulty: Hard
Time Required: 60 minutes
Here's How:
1. Get alone with him/her. Don't do this on the phone!
2. Relax. You are doing the right thing...s/he needs to know the truth.
3. Tell him/her that you feel this relationship on its current level needs to end.
4. Give him/her some time to let it sink in.
5. If s/he tries to convince you to give him/her another chance, listen to him/her.
6. Tell him/her that you've made up your mind.
7. Tell him/her at what level you would like to keep your relationship (acquaintences, never-seens, friends, etc).
8. Listen to his/her response. Respect his/her feelings about this new level
9. Let him/her go when s/he feels s/he needs to end the conversation.
Tips:
1. Be honest. Although breakups can be really hard on relationships, honesty will salvage any possible future friendship.
2. When you've realized that you are no longer interested in this person, let him/her know. Don't drag out a pointless relationship.
3. Look at this like taking off a band-aid. Would you rather do it fast or slow? Which one hurts more?
Terjemahan Bebas
Cara Mutusin Pacar
Jika hubungan kalian udh g romantis lg, waktunya untuk jujur...
Tingkat Kesulitan : Susah
Waktu yang dibutuhkan : 60 menit
Ini caranya :
1. Pastikan hanya ada kalian berdua dan jangan lewt telefon.
2. Tenang.. Kamu harus jujur, dia mesti tau apa yang sebenarnya terjadi.
3. Kasih tau dia jika hubungan terus seperti ini maka harus segera diakhiri.
4. Kasih dia waktu untuk memahaminya.
5. Jika dia meyakinkanmu klo dia mau berubah, kamu harus mendengarkannya.
6. Kasih tau dia klo kamu udh menduganya.
7. Kasih tau hubungan seperti apa yang kamu inginkan setelah putus (pendalaman hubungan, temen biasa atw kmu g mau ngliat dia lagi)
8. Liat reaksinya, hormati perasaannya tentang jenis hubungan baru yang kamu inginkan.
9. Jika dia marah dan langsung pergi, biarin...
TIPS:
1. JUJUR. Meskipun putus itu menyakitkan, kejujuran akan mendatangkan hubungan yang lebih baik di masa yang akan datang.
2. Jika kamu merasa udh g tertarik lg ama pacarmu, kasih tau dia, jangan melanjutkan hubungan yang g ada artinya.
3. Bayangkan ketika kmu melepas perban. Mana yang lebih kamu sukai, melepasnya sekaligus atw pelan2? mana yang lebih menyakitkan???
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